When Dating Taking it Slow is the Way to Go!

Listen up, ladies! When you're dating taking it slow is absolutely your best strategy for long term love. Unless you’re Fast Frieda looking for a little instant gratification, playing (and being) a bit hard to get is the smart gals secret weapon!

Yes, yes, we understand that after days, weeks, months or years of being alone, a little physical attention sounds mighty tempting. But if you don’t play your cards right and let him move too fast, that attention is bound to be very short lived indeed.

Will He Wait for Me?

Don’t get us wrong, men will certainly be grateful if you jump into the sack with them on the first date. But don’t confuse their gratitude for long term interest.

Men live for the hunt. They want to chase you and conquer you like an exotic animal in the wild. If you just drop at their feet, there is no thrill. And usually, somewhere deep in their primitive brains, this signals the end of their hunt.

Sure, they'll gladly take your offering. But don't be surprised when they pick up their gun (ahem) and move on to a real challenge.

Check out our tips on sex and 2nd base in a relationship if you’re looking for some guidelines on how quickly to let your relationship progress.

Of course the Trap Him gals are occasionally known for our progressive thoughts and understand that you may simply be on the look out for a booty call. We caution you to:

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